til debt do us part...

i am reading
and was surprised by
some of the questions
she suggests you ask yourself...

things like
what matters to you
what to you want...what do you dream
what makes you happy
what is the one thing you feel defines who YOU are
who do you respect...and why
where do you wish you were in your life
what do you think the future holds

i spent about two hours on this on Saturday morning,
tucked up warm in bed
with a mug of sugary cinnamony tea
and thought about these questions.

i have been struggling to get to the page
{pretty obvious by the scarcity of my posts}
and want to get back in the saddle, back on track
get going again
and thought i might use this as a bit of
jumping point...
something that i can look back on
and hopefully
see how far i have come.



two posts in one day!!

ok...

i know i already posted today but
my little girl is competing
on our own local maritime idol
and i am so proud
and wanted to share her video here...
if you like her, feel free to go vote for my girl...
i'd really really really really really appreciate it...

here is her video 



but you can go here to vote!

Thanks so much...did i mention that i really really really appreciate it!?

today i am

today... i am here...

today... i am breathing slowly
and breathing deeply
trying to find my way back
to me
again

today... i am slowly sipping
french vanilla black tea
with a handful of sugar
{quite literally, a handful}

today...i am giving feist a chance
and finding
that i like it

today...i am aware of the
leaves blowing outside my window
and that
although i know i should be
doing laundry
and getting groceries
my heart wants to stay in
this spot
by the window
daydreaming
about christmas crafts
and editing wedding photos
while listening to the
wind rattle
the window screens.


tuesday truths...

  • i dropped my hand-me-down-already-cracked-can't-talk-on-it-can-only-text-on-it iphone and shattered the glass front
  • the cat knocked my husband's plate of food off the cupboard...on purpose.
  • i am settling into fall
  • i am nervous for 16...she is participating in a local version of american idol tomorrow night...i think my heart is pounding more erratically than hers...she is as cool as a cucumber.
  • i am loving this series...one episode left to go...i'm kind of sad to come to the end
  • but i have started this series...i think i'm hooked.

saturday truths and sharing

it has been a good week
with some extra days off
and lots of wedding editing getting done.

i was going to come here on tuesday
and share some truths but
somehow i didn't get here until today
but i'm still going to share them...

*  i have been feeling topsy turvy up and down again
balls in the air balls on the floor scittering scattering whirling
all over the place like the red orange yellow blur of crisp leaves
blowing outside my window in a gust of wind
settling for a moment
only to get blown up and away again...
i can't settle, i can't focus, i can't stay on the track
life keeps derailing me.

sometimes with bad things, aggravating things, sad things, frustrating things
but other days,
it is with good things...
an afternoon spent at a christmas craft fair with a longtime best friend...
finding video clips online that instantly incite strong moments of nostalgia and memory,
a spicy pumpkin scented candle,
this movie
this video which totally completely absolutely blew me away...

*  i need to pick up the camera more. 
i need to pick up the pen more. 
i need to make time for me more. 
i need to pay attention.   i need to listen.
to me. 
i need to pay attention and listen to me.
i think i have something to say.

if i could stop whirling around long enough to hear it.